My letter to women..

Berlin, den 11. Januar,


      I've been seeing a lot of people posting their ,,open letter'' to the opposite sex and I figured i'd weigh in my personal opinions. I believe that all women are beautiful in their own way. That is the first and foremost important thing to make you women understand. Through college I learned how much the media has affected the women's perspective on what beautiful is. Your beauty is not stated with how many ribs I can see. Instead, your beauty is what is within you. Of course we all want our partner to be active and fit and look beautiful, but the real factors that matter to me have more to do with who you are than what you are and have. I don't care how much money you make, or what car you have or even what brand your jeans are. That's all irrelevant shit to me. What I care about is how you think of yourself and of myself. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who knows she looks good, whether or not the public agrees with her. There is something about a woman who can wear sweatpants with her hair tied up but can also put a dress on and rock your world. I don't want a woman who has to constantly worry what others think. That's unnecessary in my eyes. You have to learn to be happy in your own skin, I mean it IS the only skin you have! Sure every guy loves a bit of eye candy, but we all know that she is nothing to take home to the family. My best and most successful relationships have been with women who were confident, not cocky and knew what they had and accepted it. You can always better yourself and that's perfectly ok. What's not ok is thinking you HAVE to better yourself or no one will ever love you. Every women deserves to be loved no matter what shape, height, size, etc. Now that we got the self appearance part down, now we can talk about the relationship side. Your relationship should be something to look forward to. I see way to many girls in relationships where they are not happy and are just there for the convenience of a.) having someone there b.) a place to live or c.) simply afraid to let go. All three of those are absolutely no-gos and you're only gonna be the bad person and hurt him more the longer you drag it out. Take the time to be happy in your relationship, if you can't find happiness then accept that it just isn't the right one for you. If you find yourself fighting more than you are smiling, not the right one. If you find yourself noticing other men, not the right one. If you find yourself missing the single life, not the right one. Just some examples, but your relationship should bring the best of you out, not bring you down! A relationship isn't about what I want or what you want. It is about what can I do to make YOU better and vice versa. I feel most people fail to understand this with relationships and marriage. Love is selfless, love is about giving your all to do the best for the other person. I don't mean buy him gifts and spoil him. Not at all, I mean help him achieve his goals and help him keep his life in line. Women are the spine to man kind. Without women, no man would survive. Any guy can argue this, but a man accepts this and embraces this. You women bring life to this earth and for that we are forever in debt to you women. Understand this and know that the right guy will give his life for you and do everything to keep a smile on your face. I have way to many friends who get into relationships because they are lonely and just simply don't want to be alone anymore. I'm personally guilty of doing this, but I have learned it will cause more harm than good. We have to learn to appreciate one another and embrace the other person. It should go without saying but a relationship is a positive aspect of life and shouldn't be seen as a negative. I used to be the biggest asshole who used and abused girls to get what he wanted but I have grown up and learned that is not how we treat our partner. I learned to love and give your all for someone. Sure, hooking up and getting laid every other day was cool and fun at the time but there is no greater feeling than waking up next to the women you love and knowing that they love you in return. No sex or drug can replace that kind of feeling.

This was my stand to women, and I hope this offends no one. Feel free to comment if you'd like or message me if you'd rather keep it personal. Opinions are always appreciated.

Mit freundlichen Grüßen,
      Cory