Berlin, den 4. November
Good evening folks. It's been a few days since I have been on here but figured I would post something new. Work is quite busy right now, and with all my daily tasks I don't have much time nor energy to write once I am finally home. Todays topic is about the my experiences with women and dating habits. I had a mini debate on my Facebook earlier and got some decent feedback. I have had my own experiences with such situations and have gathered ideas from others. So I will let you guys know my stand on the topic. The age old saying that nice guys finish last is a hoax. I think the trick lies in the first couple weeks of hanging out and dating. I think a woman would be pushed away if the guy is too clingy or too friendly. The woman wants to feel wanted but not smothered. They want to play a game of tug-o-war not tug-and-have. The man needs to make himself seem a bit off limits to the woman. In this time, I think is when most men can be a bit more dickish and get away with it. Only, IF it is within respectful boundaries! After the first couple of weeks are by, THEN do I feel it is then acceptable to be the nice guy. Bear in mind that through all of this you should not be fake in any way, shape or form. We don't want to fall in love with someone just to realize they are not who you think they are. I think there are plenty of people here that have been in that situation, including myself. I feel like the asshole guy would strike gold in the first weeks but that sooner or later the woman would get tired of him and toss him to the side. My personal experiences differ though. I have noticed that when I was a dick that I was able to get more emotional attachment versus when I tried to be genuine. Why that is I will never understand personally. The nice guy is the genuine guy who will truly love you and be there for you, so ladies, don't overlook that guy! I know you want that bad boy image, and want what you cant have but I am positive sooner or later that will get old. You will realize after you've been used for sex a few times and ditched that the asshole is not who you want. Of course, some people learn quicker than others. My advice to you ladies is simple: stop going for what you THINK you want. Stop, take a look around and see if there is someone there who truly loves you. Usually that is the guy you could NEVER imagine being with, but do me the favor and give it a shot. From my experience, those are the relationships with the everlasting love. I have yet to be given such an opportunity to prove myself, and mostly been just hurt, but take it from a guy who has been the asshole and has decided that genuine has way more worth in life. You could not believe how many of my lady friends message me hurt over some asshole that they thought they loved and I know that they have men in their lives that would fly to the moon and back for them. I am one of those guys. I am by no means perfect but I would gladly get up at 3 am for my girlfriend and take care of her if she was sick. When I like someone I would do anything for them! Well, almost anything. I know plenty of guys like me, and we all just sit here like idiots waiting our chance. So ladies, I ask you one favor. Take a second look next time you think you like someone. Don't be afraid to try something new and most important of all: make sure you are happy! That is all for today, I hope everyone enjoys reading this and as always comments are appreciated!
Mit freundlichen Grüßen,
Cory
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